(New resident photo by Donovan)
After moving from Canada in 2023, we have been fortunate to find and acquire a new home. It's been almost four months now, but I still feel in limbo. Mostly because I don't have a regular job that can provide routine. And yet I love, love, the quiet, the peace, the permission to sing OUT LOUD, and the light. Our previous place of residence did not have enough light. It had tall trees and squirrels and a community pool (which was awesome), but I would find myself frequently venturing outside to find a place to sun my back, breathe fresh air, and notice things outside.
In our new home, we have SO MUCH LIGHT pouring in through the high windows --and even a skylight in the washroom! We are gifted with light. And yard. I have more than enough to do with pulling up blackberries, weeding, planting, mowing, and watering-watering- watering.
The first month I must have dug out 400 weeds from the front lawn, and then we reseeded and added dirt and peat moss and then,
more
watering.
We also had an aborist come look at our trees. The house was built in 1990, so these trees have had quite the time of settling and growing and surveying the neighborhood before we came along.
We called him out to look at the dead birch trees. Two white craggly spires that provide ample landing pads for tiny bird feet. They rest and chitter away. Sometimes crows, sometimes humming birds, sometimes a bluebird, but most often -- finches.
A couple of finches found a birdhouse that came with the tree that came with the house we acquired.
And they made a nest inside. They, too, were setting up a new home in a newly acquired house that someone else built and lived in before them.
And they had a baby.
And that baby broke out of its shell, got hungry and started squawking.
Once we knew there was a family using the birdhouse, we took care to water the garden around it to avoid getting water in the hole. Meaning, we didn't just put the sprinkler on and let it douse the house -- we positioned it carefully, or just held it and directed where the water should go until everything thirsty had gotten a good drink.
I did this.
It was very calming. It's one of the best things I get to do. Because when I scroll through my phone, I see devasting travesty and anger producing injustice and neglect from Those who promised Greatness. Their approach is to tear down existing attempts at fairness and kindness and goodness and helpfulness -- everyting the Bible tells us to do and that the wealthy pay others to do, but that the churches don't do so well unless you subscribe to their Weekly -- and we are left with broken systems and vanishing people and huge heartache and a constant wonder of what to do and how to start over and a loss of faith in justice and truth and human decency.
When I feel helpless, which was is often, I step outside. Go out, feel the sun and breathe the air and listen to the birds and smell the grass and the bark and the blackberries and the river and dig -- or lie down -- and breathe slower.
I had a wonderful time anticipating the several rose bushes we inherited with the house (along with the trees). We moved in April, and it wasn't until mid May that I learned the color and breed of these bushes. Yellow! -- no, orange -- wait -- pink! Irridescent pink-- like a highlighter. They were a wonderful coat of many colors combo of luminescence and velvety joy.And the next one? -- RED. Oh my goodness. Not water-downed everyday red, not classy acceptable burgundy or deep romantic red,
no
flashy, audacious, lipstick-come-and-get-me red. And prolific! And oh, so thorny -- ouch!
But so exciting.
And the third bush that looks like it's over 20 years old (as opposed to the new springers that you could bend like a rubber band) is also a pink/orange/gold combination that goes through a cycle of life with each color. Lovely. Just a delight.
Well, until a pincher bug waddles out with it segmented body and little hooks -- ew! What good do they do I'd like to know? They terrify me. And yet they remind me of my Oregon childhood. Pincher bugs -- or earwigs -- whatever you want to call them, like shadows and they crawl out long and quick once you disturb them and waddle to the next shady spot like a snake and they wait there ready to pounce.
For a while I wasn't sure if they could really hurt the adult me, until the other day, INSIDE my lovely light house... my son yelped and hopped up from the piano bench dusting something out of his shorts because he had just been BIT! -- Or... pinched. Or whatever. And this humdinger came out from biting his thigh. How DARE it do that?!
...(bird song)
Back to the birdhouse. And the aborist.
He came out and analyzed the birch trees that had been decimated by a beetle and then a notorious ice storm in January of 2024, and confirmed they were deceased and needed to be taken down before they take down someone or something else. But then he noticed the massive maples filling up the side yard, providing shade and privacy and homes to squirrels and thousands of leaves, which were candelevering over our roof and in need of massive haircut.
I hadn't thought of pruning them. In all of our furniture and house need acquisitions and spending, spending, spending, fixing, adding, losing, thanking, and planning, I had not budgeted time or cash for pruning the maples.
But we did it anyway. And they look great. No more widow-maker dangling branches and much more air and light.
But the birch with the little bird in the little house, we asked him to leave.
For now.
Let's wait until it flies away, and then we'll take down it's whole world.
So I continued to water around it, and as it grew it got hungrier and the birds cried louder and louder and it seemed like both parents were feeding it every 40 seconds.
And then. The hawk appeared on my fence. Three times I saw it. Massive and quiet with its gnarly wheat-colored claws, blinking and turning it's head. My son got it on tape. And now that I look back, I can see it tilting its head when it hears the little bird in the house chirping for its snack.
Oh my goodness... --Did the hawk eat the tiny bird the moment it flew out of the nest? We never saw it go and wonder what happened to it.
The birdhouse is empty now and not even the adults have returned to clean it out for the next tenant.
Is the little finch soaring or did a pouncing Predator take advantage of the weak who can't defend themselves and swoop down in silence like an ICE agent at opportunity? Little Bird is now Vanished.
Roses have thorns. So do blackberries. Two of my favorite Oregon summer things come with glory and pain. I love blackberries ripe in the wild. I make amazing ice cream and cobbler and all kinds of goodness out of them. But not in my yard. Their pricles and suckers can ruin a new garmet faster than spaghetti sauce. And their invasive roots seem to have been under our backyard for generations. I fight with them almost everyday. Like a good colonialist I pounce on them like a hawk and say they are not welcome here.The roses are soft and beautiful and I clip them and bring them inside and then some of them I deadhead right back to the y, so they can venture forth again, and again, just like the blackberries. They bring joy and goodness that quickly fades, and sometimes wriggling pincher bugs scurry over my sun-bathed counter and there is no rest and there is new adventure and there is privilege and scarcity and fear and competence and celebration and despair.
And then there are surprising hawks that swoop down and take your precious baby and you
keep
going.