To re-wire our sense of being overwhelmed, we need to
1. Slow down
2. Set out to do achievable tasks
3. Let them be a constant... a lifestyle
"R & R" = Reduce and repeat. Make the task smaller and shorter and repeat it every day (even if it's just a little bit).
Simple, conscious, slow-drip approach to clearing... will start to feel good.
1 minute of reduce and repeat every day huh?
Okay...
- After doing the closed-eye exercise I noticed______I was really sleepy and took a nap -- ha. It's true. But I also realized what I want to start with on decluttering. And the ideas came quick and clear. I saw the art on my walls with fresh eyes as to its value (symbolic of truth or relationships I hold dear), or its unartfulness -- time to put it aside.
I think the boys are old enough now that I don't have to keep every piece of artwork of theirs that strikes me. I don't have to have all those reminders in sight. I can organize them or let go of them, compile them into a mosaic of artful memorabilia, or re-purpose, re-paint, or re-do them. Ahh...
- Surprising ways that clutter shows up in my life are______things broken that need fixing and I don't have a quick and easy fix for them, but I also can't bear to throw them out because that feels wasteful. Or, I didn't get them out in the first place, or I see them as belonging to someone else and therefore not "mine" or "my responsibility". So... there they sit. Hmm....
This was a good exercise. I appreciate how the lesson did not feel overwhelming or induce guilt, but a small daily practice of seeing and short doable actions.
I feel encouraged by that.
A year from now, one could walk into my house and sense appointment and taste in the space, rather than all the wall space declaring freedom and personal connection. I will gradually become more selective.
Amen.
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